We
describe members of that incomprehensible other gender as “the opposite sex”
for good reason. It’s funny how that
works out in church events. Witness
recent events for the two.
Bob
Ruthazer and his Men’s Ministry partners staged a marvelous men’s event Sunday
evening. The pieces were: a 20 minute hot dog and chip dinner served on
paper plates, followed by a trip to a place by the raceway where we played
laser tag and raced go carts. We had a
blast. (At this point you women can say,
“Really?”)
Last month
the women had a Christmas brunch. Their
tables were exquisitely set with all manner of matching Christmas themed
plates, cups, and napkins. They had a
spread of sweet breads, quiches, dainties, and several kinds of hot drinks, all
presented with a style fitting for high tea at the Jefferson Hotel. Then they had a program on how Mary pondered
on the events of Christmas. They clearly
had a wonderful time. (At this point you
men can say, “Really?”)
All of you
who plan men’s and women’s events take note:
this is how it works. Just try
and break these patterns and see how far you get.
And keep
saying it guys and gals: “Not better;
just different,” even if you don’t believe it!
Blessings,
Keith